Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Soulmates.... real or really fake?
Currently I am single..(and ready to mingle..hahaha) as each one of my relationships comes to an end, its hard not to throw a pity party for yourself. With every guy, the phrase "the one" makes an appearance - I mean I wouldn't be with someone that didn't have the qualities that I look for in a future partner.. but things happen, the relationship takes it course - and then you are left picking up the broken pieces. People often ask me if I believe in a soul mate..hmm.. do I believe that there is only one person meant for you? Well, it's a romantic idea. Its fun to think that one day, you will be so connected to someone, that you will fall helplessly in love with them, and be together forever. I mean, that is what fairy-tales are based up on - right? As little girls, we watch every Disney movie - the girl falling in love with a handsome, perfect guy (most of the time a prince) so in reality Disney gave us high expectations.
Only one person in a world of billions and billions of people, is meant for me? Well I better get traveling, and make it happen..otherwise, its kind of depressing to think like that! I am one to say that things happen for a reason. God puts certain people in your life for a purpose..whether its to love you, hurt you, support you, to make you cry - with each circumstance, one is able to grow and become a better person. I truly believe that there will be a moment that you walk into a place, bump into someone, get to talking, maybe date..and so on. That one person, who if you would have shown up 10 minutes later - wouldn't have met - that's fate. That, I believe in.
Top 5 songs:
1. Love Bites - Def Leppard
2. Rock That Body - Black Eyed Peas
3. Superman - Eminem
4. I Get Around - Tupac
5. Neutron Star Collision - Muse
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I don't know that I believe in "the one". I believe in a person's life there will be opportunities where you'll get to choose from "the ones" - meaning that no matter where life takes you the possibility of finding your significant other will be there from within a whole bunch. And if you meet him and break up, there's a strong chance you could meet another very suitable guy.
ReplyDeleteIt really is all about timing.
I used to believe in the one, but Disney has done a number and that is a whole LOT of pressure to put on any one person - or myself to find him for that matter!!
Just my 2 cents :)
xoxo,
Carrie
so very true :) Timing is everything
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