Saturday, April 30, 2011

know your worth



It's funny when you think of Arizona, because the first thing that comes to mind is the heat. I've lived in Arizona my whole life, and I will be the first one to admit that the heat in the summer is ridiculous. It is truly like an oven and you only go outside when its absolutely necessary; but as I see the devastation in Alabama and Louisiana from hurricanes and tornadoes; or the ice storms in the north east parts of the nation, I feel guilty complaining about the heat. We don't have earthquakes, tornadoes, mud slides, hurricanes, tsunamis - we just have high temperatures. To be honest, if you have a pool, its really not that bad because AZ pool parties are pretty sweet.

But with any warm weather, less clothes becomes apparent. Keeping cool often turns into an excuse for girls to wear almost nothing, and society being okay with it. Like shorts two inches shorter are really going to keep you that much cooler. I know my male friends are probably saying that I'm crazy and to shut it, but its hard to see girls expose themselves to that degree; because ultimately it affects the reputation of ALL girls.

So does wearing barely any clothes mean "easy" or confidence? That is something that can be debated. It's funny because I consider myself a fashionable person, but I don't let my clothes wear me. I've always had the philosophy that if you are going to show leg, then cover the top portion and accessorize; and if you are going to wear a low cut shirt, then cover your legs and wear heels to balance everything out. Showing both is too much, and leaves little to the imagination. I've never respected girls who walk around with 'assets' hanging out, exposing them for the world to see. Why? Do you need attention that bad? Because I promise you - you won't receive the kind of attention you deserve, you're only gonna get the douchebags - that don't necessarily have the best intentions. Guys want someone they can take home to thier Mom, not someone that could be found on the streets of Van Buren.

Walk in to room with your head held high, a smile across your face, and your shoulders held back. You could be wearing work out clothes and have your hair tied in a pony tail, but you will radiate confidence and have the attention of every guy in the room.


Top 5 songs:
1. All of the Lights - Remix
2. Get Me Everything (tonight) - NE-Yo
3. Oh My - DJ Drama/Wiz Khalifa
4. The Kid Frankie - Wiz Khalifa
5. ET Remix - Katy Perry/Kanye West

No comments:

Post a Comment